Well, I have only ~a week on Construct, I don't know what do you refer with "-change UI_life->Frame", but:
Player -> On collision with another Object -> Lava:
- to make player jump a little: Player -> Set vector Y -> -300 (you can try a smaller or a bigger value, but it need to be negative)
- to make player flash: add behavior "Flash" to player and then, Player -> Flash -> (select the duration, depends on how you like it)
- fall again: he'll fall automatically, no need to change the vector again
Hope I could help
Edit:
Oh, and add a System -> Wait -> (seconds), after the above events and before the System -> Restart Layout.