please, is this possible to do?
It's not possible, when spawning a family, a random family member is created.
You need to spawn a specific sprite or use "Create object by name" action.
Not quite directly but possible based on index of Family ObjectTypeName:
dropbox.com/scl/fi/7kxctgsdlp8nvh46xdev8/Loop_through_family.c3p
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This means that there is no way to regulate it directly.
and the alternative is that we have to group them ourselves with certain names and add an ID to the name
create the specific object and then in a sub-event pick last created familyObject