However, if you want to do something like "Mouse->Cursor is over" you have to pick one of your 9 tiles - is there any way to say "any tile object"?
If you put all your tile objects in a family called Tiles, then you can do "Mouse: Cursor is over Tiles".
Or if you have 9 copies of one tile object, you could give them an instance variable called 'id' and set it to 1,2,3,4, etc. Then to pick a specific tile you can use 'tile: id = 3'.