Don't completely understand what I have to do now... Can we talk in skype/icq maybe?
1 on 1 - Put in a job request, or share a capx, screenshots are great, but tell you nothing. And most of the time it is trial and error, trying many different ways... and "we" haven't the time to build a demo to trail and error.
So do a little capx with multiplayer and animations. Strip it down... it will allow others to tinker.
But you are pretty much on your own. Multiplayer is pretty complicated, no matter what you use... and is most definitely advanced.
I am pretty good with most things and I am struggling to get stuff to sync - lol.
Just keep...Tinkering, Just keep tinkering, Just keep tinkering...