I not sure I understood your explanation..
So you have 2 families:
ColorsFamily (containing sprites Red, Yellow, Green)
FruitsFamily (containing sprite Lemon, Cherry, Kiwi)
And when Yellow sprite is clicked, you want to create Lemon, is this correct? And do it in 1 event, not in 3?
When you use Create/Spawn event with family, a family member is chosen at random.
So no, unfortunately you can't select which member of the FruitsFamily will be created.